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You Just Be Yourself

Soooooooo. I was thinking about my day to day interaction with people. In having a conversation with a couple other individuals, I gave my five cents of contribution. Notice I didnt say two. ☺ it was a rather good, healthy dialect. I late thought about what I said and thought maybe I shouldnt have said what I said. I used to, and sometimes still do, have a hard time explaining my point of view. When I speak I want you to fully understand where Im coming from. Its not like my opinions were off topic or that I was yelling or talking over anyone. I felt the need to apologize for what I thought. When did I ever think it was ok to feel bad about how I truly felt? Im no longer going to feel sorry about my thoughts. I am firm believer in saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Be yourself and stand up for what you believe. This can hold true for any age. Please remember to be respectful, kind, open to others as well. There is a time and place for everything and it is also how you go about saying those things.

Have a wonderful day!
Sharday

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One sentence at a time….

Ok

at the moment, I do not have any words to share.

I just thought I would write a lil somethin somethin to let you all know I am still alive and kickin.

I have been through a lot lately and do not know where to start.

I am sure when I feel like I have enough words, they will begin to flow.

Stay tuned!

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Early Morning…..4:50

I am up at 4 o’clock a.m. for no apparent reason. If this had happen any other time, I would have just prayed and then rolled over to fall asleep. Buuut not today.

I am frustrated and its interfering with my beauty rest. I have a friend whom I have known for quite some time and I am just tired of the way things have transpired. Although I may have not graduated college, I am still intelligent and that fact that someone has to constantly one-up me or correct me with their opinion ALL the time is starting to annoy me. I try not to let it get to me. Justifying the actual reason for my being upset isn’t working, Whenever I get upset, I either call people out or I choose not to address the situation. I am used to holding things inside but it’s getting to a point where I don’t want to do that anymore. If I’m unhappy and your words or actions made me feel that way, I want to be honest and tell you about it. I don’t want to let the little things bother me but it’s becoming bigger. If I don’t speak up, things will just get worse.

There are times I distance myself. Not to necessarily be rude. I just do not want to deal with confrontation. I need to grab the situation by the horns and speak on it instead of lashing out later because I bottled my feelings.  There is a time and place for everything. I suppose now is the time. Well, maybe later today. 🙂

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Free My Mind

 

Attention: This is your blogger speaking.

            Most times, I think about which words to say before I actually speak them. Other times not so much lol. After thinking about this, I have come to some conclusions:

1.    Words can be lethal. The Bible says life and death are in the power of the tongue. I totally believe that.

2. Your words affect/effect those around you, whether you realize it or not.

3. What you say can leave a lasting impression; good or bad.

4. Your thoughts influence your actions or lack thereof.

5.      The things others say about you can make or break you.

Although different points it still ties in to the main idea of how we use our words.

I used to believe what negative things were said about me. It was hard hearing them because 1.) I couldn’t believe those individuals thought that of me and 2.)
Every time I did it hurt my spirit. The more I heard the statements the more I
started to think they were true. One day when I feel more comfortable I will
share my whole story but until then….

You ARE what you THNK. It is truly a learning experience. You have to know who you are in God’s eyes. That alone gives you a whole new way of thinking. So
whenever you do hear negative things you can ignore them and not get pulled into
believing the lies. It is not an overnight process. I have to remind myself
this almost every day.

Choose your words wisely. You never know what state of mind a person can be in at any given time. You could possibly say that one thing that breaks the camel’s back. To be continued….

 

Peace&Love,

Sharday

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